• Date you attended: September 26, 2015
• Time you attended, and how long you stayed: 3 am to 4:30 am
• Approximate number of guests while you were there: 20 to 30
• Describe the body types, age range, and racial mix: Quite a range -- some guys were in great shape, some looked awful. Age from 20s to 60s. A few black guys and a couple Asians, but 80% white.
• What was the vibe like? Weird. It was more like going to an adult book store or dirty movie theater than a sex club. Most of the guys were fully clothed or only had their shirts off or partly off. I got the sense many were straight and/or bi-curious. There was a lot of wandering around and watching and several guys were clearly drunk.
• Was there barebacking going on? yes
• Was there PnP? Don't know but one guy asked me for it
• Who would you recommend this party to? I guess this might appeal to guys who are uncomfortable getting naked in front of groups, and also guys who are voyeurs. Also if it's the dead of night and you're super horny, I guess this is an option.
• Who would you not recommend this party to? This is not a normal sex party (to the extent such a thing exists). The behavior and appearance of the other guys is all over the map. Some of the guys clearly have "issues" about being or acting gay, and some of them were quite drunk. If that bothers you (it bothered me) then this would not be the place for you.

Tell us about your experience: I went to a NY CumUnion party at Paddles Friday night, and honestly I got there kind of late, so when the party wound down I was still pretty horny. The guy I was with kept fucking me and then the Paddles hosts said the after-hours party (Encores) was coming, so I figured what the hell, and I stayed to see what it was like. I ended up staying for 90 minutes so, in all fairness, there were still guys coming when I left at 4:30, and probably there was more action later. However, while I was there the vast majority of the guys were fully clothed. Some guys were attractive and some were hideous, and ages ranged from 20s to 60s. (I don't have a problem with older guys.) But what was really off-putting was the behavior of some of the guys. Some of them were very clearly quite drunk, and the very first guy who approached me (who was so drunk his words were slurred) immediately asked about PnP (which I do not do). (I did not actually see any PnP myself.) Several of the guys were extremely aggressive and there were instances where I actually had to push guys away to get them off me (which I normally NEVER have to do at a party). There was some sex going on, and a bit of it was hot, but there were a lot of guys that were just walking around and looking, and there was a lot of dick sucking without fucking. (I like getting fucked, so a party with mostly just sucking doesn't do it for me.) One particularly weird scene (to me) involved an older guy who was fucking a bottom with -- I'm serious -- a fake strap on! And the bottom was screaming and carrying on like a baby. Again, I don't blame the party organizers, who I'm sure have good intentions. And some of the guys were attractive and behaved perfectly fine. But it only takes a few jerks to ruin the vibe, and I could not get past the drunk, obnoxious behavior of some attendeees. The closest thing I can analogize this to was going to an dirty movie theater or adult book store -- all the guys endlessly walking around and cruising each other, but many afraid to go beyond that. I realize imposing a mandatory clothes check would scare many of these guys away, but perhaps they could consider a sobriety check point, lol.